Following your HELL YES even when it makes no sense

podcast Dec 06, 2021


Have you been dimming your desires? Telling yourself you're fine with less than you know you're capable of and meant for? Doing a bunch of shit you "should" do that doesn't actually light you up? Feeling bored? Feeling unspired/unmotivated?

I have a little challenge for you this week...and it's going to be so fun AND literally transform your life so fast. It's time to feel ALIVE, EXCITED AND PASSIONATE AGAIN!!

In this episode, you'll learn:

✧ The difference between a soggy yes and a hell yes
✧ Why you should follow your hell yes even when it doesn't make sense
✧ How following my hell yes led me to an interior design opportunity
✧ How choosing the hell yes path leads to a hell yes life
✧ How following your hell yes helps you detach from obsessing over and controlling the outcome
A fun, simple challenge for you this week that will change your life
✧ Journal prompts to help you stop dimming your desires and follow what you actually want


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Full Episode Transcript:

Hello and welcome to the magnetical you podcast. I'm your host Madison's or dike. I'm a mindset energy coach here to help you feel your freaking best and manifest a life full of magic miracles and abundance. I know that whatever led you here did not happen by coincidence. So I am so excited and grateful to have you here. So let's let the magic begin. Hi, and welcome back to magnetically. Whew, a podcast. It feels like I haven't recorded a solo episode in a hot minute. So I'm very excited to be here. And this episode is going to be short. Sweet and do see. So I'm going to be talking about following your hell yes. Even when it makes no sense. So something that my coach has talked about she calls it the different there's like, there's no nose and then there's soggy yeses. And then there's like hell yes. Right. Like so. What are you saying? Yes to that you're like soggy on that you're like, Oh, I guess we shouldn't do it or like I kind of want to or I think I should want to or I guess I'll do that. Like I guess that makes sense. That's a fucking soggy, yes. Okay, so this episode is all about listening to your hell yes. Like what are you a health Fucking yes on doing saying yes to buying? Not buying like what is a hell Fucking yes for you right now. So something that I'm going to tell a little story about how this kind of like came up for me recently and how this is something that I realized I wanted to go even deeper into really ground into like, really give my focus and attention to following what feels like a held guess for me. So I went to this store in Annapolis a few months ago was the first time I had went there. And it's this interior design store. It's the most it was the most beautiful place I felt so alive. So expensive. Such a hell Fucking yes. And they're like, Oh my God, this most beautiful place ever. I want to buy everything in here. These women working here are so nice. They're so smart. This is their display server, and I go about my life. Then I go back with my parents when they were visiting. About a month later, I walk in I have the same feeling I start talking to them. And at first I thought it was just a shop. It turns out it's a shop with the most beautiful, I don't even know like decor and like little like trinkets and like styling pieces for your home. And I started talking to these girls. And it turns out they have they do Interior Design and styling. And I'm just like, oh my gosh, this is like the most magical place ever. Like how cool is that what they're doing. And mind you, we just moved to Alexandria, Virginia in August. And I did a lot of like interior design and redecorating and buying furniture and styling and that kind of thing. And we're just having so much fun with it. I loved it so much. And so interior design had kind of been on my mind. And then I go into this store. And one day, a few days after I went with my mom, I was on a walk. And I just got this really, really, really strong, intuitive nudge to call this place and ask if they were hiring for any part time work. And my mind was like, why would you do that? You don't need a job. Like you. This doesn't make any sense. It's an hour away. Like, do you actually want to? Like, do you want to job like, do you want to be on a schedule? Like does this even make sense? Like, this isn't on brand, like you don't do Interior Design like? And so I just let myself have all this thoughts. And the Ping was so strong, it wouldn't go away. And I just like, I mean, you guys know I talk about intuition all the time. That is my freaking jam and specialty. And so I was just like, I know, I know, I'm supposed to call these people. I have no idea why this doesn't make any sense. And it's a hell yes. So I called them and I was just like, hey, I feel really live in your store and I'm wondering if you have any openings for part time people.

So we started talking, I ended up doing a trial after one day they offered me a part time gig and I was like this is crazy, but like it's a hell of fucking Yes, it makes no sense like there. It's not about money because I'm not really making much money doing it. It's not about convenience because it's an hour away and I realized like the reason at that I'm doing this is purely because it's a hell yes. Purely because I'm excited about it purely because it's a desire and oh my god, it's feeling so fucking good. And it's like, I'm following my intuitive hell yes. And it's like, I it doesn't make sense. I don't know where it's gonna lead but it's like I almost it's like I don't even care because it's such a hell yes that it doesn't even matter where it leads. I don't need an outcome. I don't need a I do this and then I get this to happen. I don't need to know where Trevor Trevor has been. He's like, what's your end game with this? I'm like, I don't have fun all I know is I'm supposed to be there now. I don't know what's gonna happen next month or next year? What why I'm doing this or what the point is. But it's a hell yes now so I'm just gonna do it. And I allowed myself to like trust that and lean into that and it's just been so much fun. So I share this to give you a challenge for the next week only follow your hell yes. Like even with choosing what food tea like do I want avocado toast or do I want a smoothie? Like which one is a hell yes if it's a soggy yes it's a fuck now. If it's a hell yes it's a hell yes. That's it anything else? Is a no so follow your hell yes. Even with like I don't know just with food with your nail picking your nail color at the nail salon designing your next offer for your business like what would be a help bucking guess to offer people what would feel so juicy and so exciting and so fun? What would be the next juicy fun hell yes thing for you to invest in? What like just what a hell fucking Yes. Or like if you're like out shopping and you pick up something you're like Oh I like this is it a hell yes or is it a soggy yes right like so just let yourself play with this all week follow your hell yes all week and see how you feel see where it leads because my take on this is that the hell yes. path leads to a hell yes. Life and the best part is that it's like it's it opens up so much magic that your mind our minds can just cannot even begin to predict or understand or control and it's a you don't even need to control predict or understand or know where it's going to lead because you don't give a flying fuck because you're following your hell yes right now and you're living your best life and you don't give a fuck because every step of the way you're following your hell yes. So then your life becomes a hell yes. And then there's nowhere then you're not constantly like chasing a hell yes life. It's like how can you create a hell yes life if you're not doing the things I feel like hell yes. Right. Like it's so simple. But like so many of us get caught up in doing all the shit that we should be doing. So I believe that we have desires if we have these Helghast desires because one we're meant to have them too. It's a gateway to something better or three it's a spiritual assignment to expand us deeper into our truth to help us let go of what's no longer serving us to bring us closer to what's in our highest good so a follow your hell yes. No more soggy yeses. Fuck that shit. And some journal prompts. So that's that's like your little challenge for this week is actually it's not a little challenge. It's like fucking huge and it's literally gonna change your life in a week. I promise you if you actually do this, like, I mean, this is something I like. It's always there in the background like this is you know, really just how I kind of like live my best life. And that's what I help my clients do. It's like, literally, you can get paid to live your best life. How do you do that? Well, you first have to live your best life because how would you do it? You know? So I've really been intentional with it this week. And it's just been Yeah, it's been feeling so good. Like, I'm waking up feeling more excited, feeling better. And just like, noticing myself where I'm shooting myself, right. Like yesterday, I was telling myself like, oh, I should record that podcast. And it just it wasn't flowing. It wasn't my hell yes. It was, I think like writing an email or something else was the hell yes. So I did the other LDS thing. And I was like, if a podcast doesn't go out this week, like, the world will go on. So I don't know when this is gonna get released. It might be on you know, the normal schedule might be a little late and like, who gives a flying fuck?

Because I'm following my hell yes. And it's like, that's also a really good point. It's like following your hell yes. helps you not give a flying fuck. Because you're doing you, you're living your best life. You're doing what you want to do. You're following your desires. And you get to do that. That's the path that gets to work for you. And it's not only the path that gets to work for you, but it's also the path that gets to feel really really really good. So it's like you get to have the feel good path and you get to have the hell yes life and you get to have the magic and you get to have the results you get to have both. And the way you have both is by intentionally choosing the hell yes pass. How could you have the hell yes pass and the hell yes outcome if you don't choose the hell yes pass if you choose the showed path I hate my life path then that's what you choose right like we it's an intentional choice so choose the health I can yeses practice it all week like with with everything just ask yourself what is what's my hell yes right now and then some journal comps that can kind of go along with this if you love journaling, like me you can ask yourself, Where are you doing yourself? What desires are you doing? Where are you telling yourself? I don't need that or I shouldn't want that or like, I'm fine. Like, I don't actually need that like that's just too excessive. Like where are you Deming your desires? Where are you holding yourself back from what you want? Where are you following the rules? And Where where are you doing what you should? And if anything's coming up as a hell yes for you right now. Then go do the damn thing. So I'm so excited for you to play with this. It's just it's been so fun. I think even just after a day of really intentionally following your hell yes like it's gonna feel really really good and feel really really fun and there'll be Yeah, it's like the point is not to like follow the hell yes so that good things come and it's like inevitably following your hell yes. Creates a hell yes. Life So go have fun with this on another note, but also related now I have private coaching spaces open right now so if this is a hell yes for you to work with me. Now is the fucking time so send me a message on Instagram at Madison dot Arnhold or you can email me at hello at magnetically It's I don't know what day this is going to be released but it's it'll be December right like this is the last month of the year and it's like let's make the rest of the year be health Fucking yes let's make 2022 the most hell yes year of your entire life. And let's make your life a hell fucking Yes. Why would you settle for anything less? Okay, I will leave it there. Have an amazing week playing with this and I will see you on the next episode. Thank you so much for listening to the magnetically your podcast. If this episode serve, do I ask that you share it with someone who could make a difference for or share it on social media and tag me at magnetically you make sure to hit subscribe so you don't miss any of the magic. And it would mean the world to me if you would leave a review on iTunes. Thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart for being here. And I will see you in the next episode.

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