When You’ve Outgrown What Is (But Don’t Know What’s Next)

Have you ever felt like your current life doesn’t feel aligned anymore—but you don’t yet know what's next?

Like a robot vacuum dropped in the wrong house, bumping into walls and furniture that don’t match the program you once ran so effortlessly. That’s what the in-between feels like. And if you’re here, you’re likely deep in that tender space—no longer aligned with what was, not yet clear on what’s next.

You're not stuck - you're expanding into something bigger.

It’s the part no one talks about in the rebirth—the stretch, the ache, the deep discomfort that comes before the clarity. Before the vision. Before the momentum.

Here are 7 messages for navigating the in between before the rebirth:

1.You’re not breaking down—you’re breaking out.

You’ve outgrown the old container. Like a plant whose roots are hitting the edges of its pot, it’s time for something larger. That tension you feel? It’s just your spirit brushing up against what no longer fits.

2. What’s Coming Is Better Than What Feels Lost

It might feel like everything is unraveling. But it’s not falling apart—it’s creating space. The solutions, support, and clarity are forming even if you can’t see them yet.

Ask: “Show me the path of least resistance and greatest relief.”

3. Make Space to Hear Yourself

Value the stillness. The emotion. The open-endedness. Create room to hear what your inner voice is whispering beneath the noise.
Voice memos. Quiet walks. Five minutes of stillness. It all counts.

4. It’s Not Time to Push

Like giving birth or waiting for an avocado to ripen—you’ll know when it’s time.
Don’t force clarity or action before it’s ready. The ripeness will come.

5. Work With What Is

You don’t have to solve everything or fix your environment to move forward. Ask:
What supports me right now?
What do I need to do to help myself with what I have?

Let support in. Let things unfold in their own time.

6. Let the Next Step Be Enough

Even if you don’t have the full vision yet, how you want to feel can guide you.
For me? Calm and powerful. That’s enough for now.

7. Imperfect Action Is Allowed

You don’t need to feel 100% clear to begin again. You’re like Bambi—wobbly, uncertain, but growing stronger with each step.
Messy action is still sacred action.

If you’re in the in-between, I see you. I’m walking it too.
You’re not being torn down—you’re being remade.
Trust the stretch. Something beautiful is being born.

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